by The Twisted Bear on February 8, 2010
CBT can be from mild to wild, from pleasurable to challenging, it all depends on the intention of the top and the bottom. Some guys are extremely sensitive to anything that has to do with their balls, and a little CBT done correctly can take them a long ways. Other guys want it as hard and as rough as the top can give it. So, just like any other type of BDSM play, CBT is not about torturing somebody’s cock and balls (unless that’s what they really want and the top wants to give it to them), it really about having an arsenal of techniques to draw from, and then weaving those techniques into a scene that is satisfying for both the top and the bottom.

The CBT Workshop will be a combination of presentation by PaddleDaddy, group discussion, demonstration, and practice sessions. All participants will be expected to practice both the Top and the bottom roles. Since the CBT Workshop is the first of the 2010 BDSM Workshop Series, we will also cover topics such as dungeon etiquette, safety, and how to structure and negotiate a BDSM scene.
The workshop starts at 1:00pm and ends by 6:00pm. Door will open 30 minutes prior to the workshop starting time. Workshop location will be e-mailed to participants when they complete the online registration process. If you want to pay at the door, please send an e-mail to PaddleDaddy to get the workshop location and a list of what you need to bring (don’t worry, it’s a very short list).
The workshop will be followed by a structured Dungeon Party from 8pm to 12:pm. The play party is open to all men who have participated in any of the workshops of the 2010 BDSM Workshop Series. Doors will open at 7:30 and close promptly at 8:00pm. Once the doors are closed, PaddleDaddy will lead a process that will start the Dungeon Party and is designed to ensure that all participants in the Dungeon Party have a play partner for the evening. The Dungeon Party ends at 12:00 midnight.
About the facilitator:
Al Waddell has been facilitating M4M events for 18 years, both in the Portland area and across the country. His first encounter with BDSM was in 1995 and he has been assisting and facilitating BDSM beginning and intermediate level workshops for the last 10 years across the United States. Al plays as a top and a bottom and brings the perspectives of both roles to his workshops. He is also available for private instruction and consultation.
by The Twisted Bear on February 7, 2010
Cum Horny, Leave Satisfied

ITOP
by The Twisted Bear on February 5, 2010

Kinky is NOT a Diagnosis
NCSF is proud to announce that 3,241 people have signed the DSM Revision Petition from June 2008 to December 2009. The petition is now closed and has been sent to the American Psychiatric Association (APA) and the members of the Sexual and Gender Identity Disorders Work Group for the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM V). Thanks goes out to everyone who participated in this historic effort!
The diagnoses in the DSM-TR-IV subject people who practice BDSM, fetishes and cross-dressing to bias, discrimination and social sanctions without any scientific basis. NCSF often sees individuals who suffer distress and impairment in their social and occupational lives (ie. interpersonal difficulties) because their desires conflict with current societal standards. These standards stem in a large part from the DSM. itself: pathologizing unusual sexual interests has led to more discrimination and discouraged individuals from seeking treatment for physical and mental health problems. This codification of “cultural aversion” was the same reason that ego-dystonic homosexuality was included in the DSM, and then removed when it was finally recognized as such by the APA.
Some of the comments made on the petition include:
#604: “BDSM is no more an illness or dysfunction than boxing, skydiving or participating in any extreme sport.”
#1680: “I am all for removing these biases from legitimate psychiatry. It has ruined a friend of mine as for 8 years he has felt ashamed, depressed and self destructive because some “therapist” diagnosed him as sexually deviant and egodystonic and told him to repress his urges.”
#1902: “Psychiatry should serve human wellness, not police human diversity.”
#2224: “Historically, diagnoses of insanity have been used to marginalize those with unusual sexual preferences. This has to stop.”
#2566: “I just had an acquaintance lose custody of her child to her now-vengeful ex due to “kink” and a bad judge. It’s time to take more bias out of the DSM.”
“The politicization of sexuality is common in this country,” says Leigha Fleming, Board Chair of NCSF. “There is no basis in scientific fact for the categorization of BDSM and affiliated behaviors as inherently pathological or unhealthy. Social conservatives shouldn’t be allowed to carry their agenda into the DSM. It wasn’t appropriate when homosexuality was classified as a disorder by the APA and it’s not correct now for the DSM to classify consensual adult sexual expression like BDSM, cross dressing, etc. as disorder. The DSM was never meant to be a political weapon used to marginalize sexual minorities. The overwhelming response by our constituents necessitates our involvement in this critical issue.”
To see the hundreds of comments that petitioners made on the petition, click here: www.thepetitionsite.com/1/DSMrevisionpetition ;
To find out more about the DSM and the Paraphilias section, read the NCSF & ITCR: The Foundation for NCSF’s “White Paper on the DSM Revision” at www.ncsfreedom.org
For more information, email: susanw@ncsfreedom.org
February 2, 2010
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National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances the equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual and relationship expression. NCSF advances the rights and advocates for consenting adults in the SM-Leather-Fetish, swing, and polyamory communities. We pursue our vision through direct services, education, advocacy, and outreach in conjunction with our partner organizations to directly benefit these communities.
Office: (410) 539-4824
Media: (917) 848-6544
media@ncsfreedom.org
www.ncsfreedom.org
www.twitter.com/ncsf
http://ncsf.wordpress.com
by The Twisted Bear on February 4, 2010
@ Eagle LA – 4219 Santa Monica Blvd. @ Hoover, Silver Lake, 90029

by The Twisted Bear on February 3, 2010
Double Chain Harness
Our Double Chain Harness is new version of our already very popular Chain Harness.

It has two rows of chain instead of one for a more masculine look.
Double Chain Harness
by The Twisted Bear on February 3, 2010
| February 19, 2010 | to | February 21, 2010 |
Leather • Uniforms • Rubber • Provincetown MA

A kick-back, have a good time, meet some hot new friends weekend for those who want to hang out, socialize, relax or party with other like-minded people in Leather, Rubber and Uniforms.
by The Twisted Bear on February 2, 2010
by The Twisted Bear on February 2, 2010
| March 5, 2010 | to | March 7, 2010 |
2010 Mr. SF Leather Contest

Doors Open at 7:00 pm
at the Hotel Whitcomb, 1231 Market St.
$20 Adv. and $25 Door Purchase Tickets
Mr SF Leather 2010
by The Twisted Bear on February 1, 2010
| March 20, 2010 | to | March 28, 2010 |
Washington State Leather Pride

WSMLO, Seattle WA – www.wsmlo.org/
Washington State Leather Pride Weeks:
March 17 – 28, 20010
The Washington State Mr. & Ms. Leather Contest
March 27, 2010
Leather Emerald Awards /Victory Brunch
March 28, 2010
by The Twisted Bear on January 30, 2010
Sometimes, we like our woof on the Daddy side, throw in a little leather and yum!

To see more – Leather Daddy